June 03, 2009

Tetapi kalau...

kalau lelaki itu memang sahabat kita...



it ain't easy to just ignore and walk away isn't it?

I mean, after kita terus terang.


Kan?

12 suicidal thought(s):

*Sarah is the One said...

adakah dia suka kau? aku pernah ada bestfriend lelaki yang aku sangat rapat for so many years tapi kami memang sedia maklum dia suka aku. in the end apa yang aku buat ialah aku tidak lagi jadi bestfriend dia dan langsung renggang bila dia ada gf sebab memang dah tau kalau dia ada chance untuk dengan aku, dia akan cuba. hanya contact balik bertahun-tahun lepas dia dah strong dengan gf dia dan dia dah get over feeling dia dekat aku. sebab kadang-kadang move on ni perlu dibantu juga (dengan melarikan diri contohnya). ada orang tak faham erti give up so kita tolong buat dia give up untuk kebaikan dia juga.

sol said...

1- terus terang. cakap baik2.

2- cakap mahu jadi kawan. dan anda sayang sebagai kawan. harap beliau ngerti.

3- buat2 biasa. jangan buat awkward. cz anda buat awkward. dia lg rs tak senang hati. serius cakap.

4- live.


tah la. it worked fer me. sampai skang me and the guy who had a crush on meh still kawan. and hes 1 of me besties too.

good luck.

Anonymous said...

it is easy to ignore/walk away actually. in my case, we remained frens and everything else went on as normal.she was a rational, considerate human being. n of coz, the way i explained had sumthing to do with it. i assured myself the burden lift-off n i was satisfied for telling the truth. :)

xxeemm said...

Bagi period of healing jap kot. He would need time to adjust his perception on you kan?

HariHaz said...

terus terang tentang?

KuCAi said...

oh,bende macam pernah berlaku.but it happened to me.
bagi ak,lebih baik bterus terang.yup,of course it hurts but it's the fact.
kawan xkawan,love doesn't care.
org berkawan pn leh mnat each other gak.
if d guy okay,he'll get over the fact that it's possible for u to accept him.
tp kawan tetap kawan kan?
just never b d one to end up friendship.
kalau de yg nk end,it's up to him.
huhu.
gud luck!;)

fafarafa said...

aku rasa...ko kena ckp dgn dia..
yg ko syg dia. as a fren, ko leh syg smpi bila2. the relationship will last...err can i say forever??
but if as a galfren, ko sndr xtau whether the relationship can last forever. u guys might break-up. even though masih bole kawan, but still the relationship is not the same as before u guys being couple.

maybe u can say to him that u dun want to lose a very good friend because of this love thingy.

errr...ko paham kah maksud aku nih??? hahahhaha

farizzet said...

yes, it aint easy. but if you care you will be in more dangerous position. please ignore.


what if,
if you care,
i also confess to you? would you ignore and walk away? you shattered my feelings you know...

casperakhimi said...

Perhaps, prayer and time?

Good luck dalam menangani masalah ni.

Saya percaya cik Neem cerdik.

Dayana said...

haah. tapi we have to be firm.

may be after some time you can still be friends, or not.

but you need time.

NeEM™ of Suicide Park said...

Thanx, everyone!

Ezz-thetics said...

hell yeah to that...;p