So what are the 'smart' things men should do to impress women?

Some guys are asking.
I wanted to say 'hey you're asking the wrong person' but what the heck.
I'm a lady. I am completely responsible for writing the previous entry that gives birth to the question.
Of course those guys are coming after me and asking sorts of questions.


But if people ask me and I may answer, it would not be the answer to 'how to impress my girl', but it'd be the answer to 'how to impress Anoneemus'.
And thank you very much, I'm off the market. Taken.

Yeah, I don't know your girl, I don't know every girl.
I don't think there is one-size-fits-all solution to this matter. It kinda depends on what kinda guy your girl likes. That is of course, according to my opinion.


And should your girl resembles Anoneemus, a lot, and I don't mean physically -'cause that might suggest you have a crush on one of my cousins- I might be able to give you a li'l advice.

My tips is of the utmost typical and simple one.

Just be yourself.

Sounds corny, huh?
But that is my answer.

Be her friend, spend some time with her and be yourself. Ask her out, but be your courteous self.
Be yourself and if she likes you, bingo!
Be yourself and if she does not like you, be it.


This advice is coming from the owner of this blog.
Ini nasihat aku, semestinya aku relate dengan diri aku.

Kalau aku memang tak ada feeling pada lelaki tu, dia buatlah apa pun, aku tak akan suka.
Malanglah pada lelaki yang aku dah terang-terang cakap tak ada perasaan, tapi depa ingat aku sengaja jual mahal, so depa duk try lagi.
Tidak sama sekali. Kalau tak suka, aku cakap tak suka.
Tak payah nak paksa aku beritahu apa salah dia sampai aku taknak terima. Jawapannya takde salah apa, takde kurang apa, aku takde perasaan.


Tapi kalau aku dah memang suka, tak payah sibuk nak buat macam-macam. Jadi diri sendiri. Kalau aku suka, aku cakap suka je.
Macam Encik Stateskop. Dia cuma kasi hadiah handbag pada aku. Dan ia bukanlah handbag idaman yang boleh buat aku jatuh hati. Tapi aku dah suka dia, I just go for it lah.
Dia pun tak perlu susah-susah nak pikat aku. Jadi diri sendiri, kebetulan aku suka, so aku beritahu dia aku suka dia (sebelum dia sempat nak pikat aku kut, aku rasalah. Tu yang terkesima tu).

We end up married and isn't that a good thing?
Lucky him I'm not the type who plays hard to get (contrary to popular belief) so it saves him a lot of energy and money and time.
Lucky me I finally found someone I want to spend my life with. And it didn't involve teddy bears or jewelleries or love songs. All it took was time spent talking and talking to get to know each other. It happened in less than 2 months.

Funny both of us cannot recall the exact date I told him I (really) like him, but it happened somewhere between Christmas (I left a Christmas Eve party early to go on a movie date with him, and this was probably only a few weeks after our first date) and 20th January (the day he introduced me to all of his siblings).

So other guys may had spent years of knowing me and talking to me, but the feeling was not there so I guess there's nothing they could do.




Oqeh, ini semua cerita pasal aku.
Bukan perempuan lain. Memang ada perempuan lain yang boleh cair dengan effort lelaki buat untuknya.
But I'm not that type.


Aku tak reti nak pupuk perasaan.
Aku memang tak reti nak ubah attitude terhadap sesuatu perkara. ThankGod I'm not a smoker.






So, lelaki-lelaki di luar sana, jangan takut mencuba, tapi cuba pastikan teknik mengurat tu kena dengan orangnya. Kalau takut mencuba, nanti menyesal.
Tapi jangan try too hard, atau menanti terlalu lama. Mungkin perempuan tu macam aku?
Kalau bertahun-tahun, mungkin dah kena belajar move on. Tak berbaloi pun buang masa untuk perempuan yang tak ada apa-apa hubungan dengan kamu.




Lagipun, lelaki kena simpan effort, tenaga dan wang untuk isteri. Itu je hubungan yang diiktiraf dunia akhirat.
Tak ke sia-sia bila dah kahwin nanti mengenangkan dulu kau buang masa untuk perempuan lain dan end up tak mendapat secebis faedah pun daripadanya?
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